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Reading Female Signals
Chapter 3
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Touching. A quote made famous on the Discovery Channel program
"The Sex Files", goes "I always touch a man incidentally,
never accidentally." This physical contact is generally
made seemingly to emphasize a point, during laughter at the
end of a joke or at some other "innocent" moment in
the conversation. This is almost never an accident and therefore,
over the course of your interaction, you should pay close attention
to any touch she might make on your body. If you are standing,
she may touch your forearm or, more overtly, put her arm around
your shoulders. If you are sitting, you will often find she
may start with touching your forearm and move to your knee and
thigh as she becomes more interested. Footsies are also commonly
female initiated activities. Of course, overt touching, including
a woman placing your hand in her lap or patting your buttocks
are certainly clear enough indications of interest that we don't
have to discuss them further. The next choice you are faced
with is when should you attempt a kiss. Read this article
to discover the right timing and this article
to improve your kissing technique.
As you can see, if you closely observe what women are telling you
as they utilize a variety of non-verbal cues, you will certainly
be more effectively able to gauge their receptiveness to your advances.
So, before you make a total ass of yourself with someone who's not
interested, or worse, miss out on an opportunity to connect with
a wonderful woman, study these behaviors and attempt to spot them
the next time you're in your favorite nightclub - you may be surprised
to find them directed at you!
For an excellent and thorough investigation of this material, why not pick up: The Complete Idiot's Guide to Body Language
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